day 2 of the love dare

How would your husband describe you on the kindness meter?
Probably that I am too nice.

How harsh, how gentle & helpful are you?
Harsh – I can be pretty harsh to Mark if he’s not listening to me or doing things I ask.
Gentle – I believe I am gentle.
Helpful – I try to be as helpful as I can.

Do you wait to be asked or do you take initiative to help?
I usually take the initiative otherwise it probably wouldn’t get done.

day 1 of the love dare

Day 1
So I decided to continue with the Love Dare long distance since Mark is in Michigan until Saturday and do the best I can with him being gone.

When we choose to be patient, how do we respond to situations?
calmly
If we choose to be impatient, how do we respond to situations?
With anger or attitude
What does impatience spawn? Do these responses help the situation?
Fighting, resentment. Not at all. They only make them worse
When your husband offends or angers you, what is most often your response?
Anger, attitude.

I know I tend to lose my cool with Mark esp when he says or does something I don’t like and it’s mainly in the tone of his voice.